GOD IS A FRIEND WHO STICKS CLOSER THAN A … MOTHER. Isaiah 49:14-16.

We love the verse that says “there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” Proverbs 18:24. Most consider Jesus the ultimate fulfilment of that statement. He sticks closer than any brother. But what about a mother? Could Jesus be closer than even your own mother?

Yes. Not only is it possible, but God makes a promise about it. With Mother’s Day on everyone’s mind, it’s hard to imagine anyone closer to children—even grown children—than their own mother. What a strong, important bond. A woman’s children define her and shape her entire life, her memories, her sense of purpose, her sense of self—children are everything to their moms. Moms love them with all of who they are. But God is even closer to the children than their own mother. I remember my parents trying to explain that to me, that God loved me even more than they did. When I was little, I could not understand that. How could an invisible God who never gave me a hug or spoke to me love me more than my own parents?  Yet He promises exactly that.

“If you say, ‘The Lord has abandoned me. The Lord has forgotten me!’ Can a woman forget her nursing child, or lack compassion for the child of her womb? Yet even if mothers forget, I WILL NOT FORGET YOU. Look, I have inscribed you on the palms of My hands” Isaiah 49:14-16.

God, thank you that your love for us eclipses even that of our own mothers. Thank you for moms and all the love and compassion that they give us—and help us to understand that You love us EVEN MORE THAN OUR OWN MOMS.

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GOD CAN USE YOU IN YOUR FINAL DAYS. Isaiah 46:3-4.

In 2021, we moved my father into a memory care center because of Alzheimer’s disease. I found it difficult to watch him leave his home and his wife and move alone into the equivalent of a college dormitory—where he knew no one and, as independent as he was, would certainly be confused at first.

But God’s got this, right? God is still on His throne. And my dad would always be one of the strongest men I ever met. He suffered through hepatitis alone in a 3rd-world country (6’4” and 120 pounds!). He could handle it. And he was never “mine” to protect and care for, or my mom’s. He belonged to God, first, and God would not give him too much. God also knew how strong a man he was, and even with dementia, he would be okay.

That night, I opened my Bible and God brought scripture to my attention:

“Know that the Lord, He is God. It is HE who has made us and not we ourselves. We are HIS people and the sheep of HIS pasture.” Psalm 100:3-4.

My dad belonged to God, and walking with God can be a tough calling—because God calls us to be men of courage and faith, facing hard things with our eyes fixed on Jesus. And Daddy was strong. After a lifetime with Jesus, his faith was so ingrained that even in dementia he would not feel abandoned by God.

“Listen to Me … you who have been sustained from the womb, carried along since birth. I will be the same in your old age. I will bear you up when you turn gray. I have made you, and I will carry you; I will bear and save you.” Isaiah 46:3-4

God cares for us—and even uses us—as we age. He always has an encouraging word if you are reading His word every day. My father read the Bible every day for at least 30 years. I knew God would bless him even at the end, using those last tough days like an athlete working the hardest at the end of a marathon. Great rewards were coming, and I know Daddy earned more with each day. And God was with him every minute, even when we could not be. Blessing him and using him. But how—how does God use a man in his condition? Is that even possible?

Ephesians 3:10 says God uses even the sick to remind the devil that only God has the power of life and death—so in dementia, an old, faithful saint may do his life’s greatest work as proof of God’s great sovereignty over life and death and all things. (Read the passage above from Joni’s incredible book, HEAVEN: YOUR REAL HOME.)

Imagine that: disease may leave a man blind and mute, but his every breath preaches a sermon to the spiritual forces all around us. Isn’t that amazing? Praise God.

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GOD HAS FORGOTTEN ABOUT ME. Isaiah 49:14-16.

Have you seen the recent film based on the book from 1970, ARE YOU THERE GOD, IT’S ME, MARGARET? Controversy surrounds the books of Judy Blume. One writer says she is “perniciously wrong about all the social issues that matter” yet even Blume’s critics are calling this a “perfect” film. It tells the story of a girl moving to a new town, making new friends, and confronting adolescence. Her parents, one Jewish, the other Catholic, have chosen to raise Margaret without religion. But she talks to God anyway. I wish more kids would.

“Despite all the talk about its treatment of puberty, the movie is essentially about a young girl’s yearning for connection with God.”[1]

When I was a kid, I saw Judy Blume’s books everywhere—particularly ARE YOU THERE GOD, IT’S ME, MARGARET.  I never read the book, but the title is one of those lines that is in my head every day; it’s such a casual, easy prayer.  It may not convey all that we know of God’s power and holiness, but I know God welcomes prayers like this one. Just talk to Him, you know? You have to begin somewhere. 

I like the line, “it’s me, Margaret.”  I love the way she reminds God of her name, as though He may have forgotten.  

Do you ever feel like God has forgotten you?  Have you found yourself surrounded by so many disasters you feel like God is not paying attention? Do you have doubts—Maybe He loves so-and-so, but does He really love me?  Here’s what God has to say about that: when Israel charged God with forgetting them, He answered with a pair of rhetorical questions—

“Can a woman forget her nursing child?  Or lack compassion for the child of her womb? Even if she could, yet I will not forget you.  Look! I have tattooed your face on the palms of My hands! Not only your face and name, but your broken down walls.” Isaiah 49:14-16.

God is reminding us how much He loves us!

He loves you so much it’s as though He tattooed your name, your face, AND your problems on the palms of His hands.  He knows you, He LOVES you, and He is completely up-to-date on every problem that you are facing!  Don’t be discouraged. 

Take some time to talk to God and thank Him for His incredible, infinite love for you and the answers that He is going to provide for ALL your problems.

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[1] Barbara Nicolosi, PhD, “Are You There, Beauty? It’s That ‘Margaret’ Movie,” The National Catholic Register. https://www.ncregister.com/blog/are-you-there-god-judy-blume

COPING SKILLS. Isaiah 45:6,21-23.

When you face your greatest disappointment, your deepest grief and loss, will you be prepared?

THE BIBLE TEACHES COPING SKILLS: Number one—pray. Sounds obvious, but it is too critical not to mention. See, for example, Philippians 4:6-7.

Number two—PRAISE GOD. This coping skill is not well known. But it makes such a difference. To praise is to tell God all about His own greatness. Of course, He knows—but it is a critical reminder for you. When you are ravaged by grief, or a broken relationship, or a broken dream, or when your plans appear hopeless or you are terrified because of imminent disaster, STOP what you are doing and spend time praising God. If that means choking out a list of His qualities through your own tears, do it, because “He inhabits the praise of His people” Psalm 22:3. God comes so near when you praise Him. Not only that, but praise takes your mind off of your problems, and helps you focus on the God who is the Lord over your problems—the God who can change it, or give you the hope you need to get through it.

Do you have problems today? If not, you will have them tomorrow, right? When I was a college student, I memorized all the verses I could about coping with problems—because problems are the most difficult, but also the most common part of every life. Rich, poor, young, or old—we ALL have to cope, and PRAYER and PRAISE are the keys. Read these verses from Isaiah and tell them to God—use these verses to praise Him:

“I am [say “You are”] Yahweh, and there is no other. I form light and create darkness. I make success and create disaster…. There is no other God but Me, a righteous God and Savior; there is no one except Me. Turn to Me and be saved, all the ends of the earth. For I am God, and there is no other…. Every knee will bow to Me, every tongue swear allegiance.” Isaiah 45:6,21-23.

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PEACE IN OUR TIME. Psalm 46:9-10.

In 1938, British Prime Minister Neville Chamberlain returned from negotiations with Adolf Hitler and announced to the British people that he had secured “Peace in Our Time.” Chamberlain and others had agreed to give Hitler the Sudetenland, an area of Czechoslovakia populated by many Germans. Everyone seemed to think if they gave Hitler that one little thing, the angry little man would go away quietly. 

But Hitler did not go away and Chamberlain’s triumphant phrase became famous for its irony: there was no peace. Hitler immediately invaded Czechoslovakia, then coordinated the nationwide anti-Jewish pogrom now known as Kristallnacht (“Crystal Night,” i.e., the “Night of the Broken Glass”),  in which Nazis destroyed 7,500 Jewish shops and 400 synagogues and arrested—for the first time—some 30,000 Jewish men. Then Germany invaded and occupied Poland, Denmark, Norway, Holland, Belgium, and France.  Instead of peace, England suddenly found itself in the worst war the world has ever seen. Within months, Chamberlain was forced to resign, his efforts to appease the enemy gone up in flames. “Peace in Our Time,” became an ironic complaint among the British people as they endured nightly bombing raids and spent their days picking up the pieces: “Oh, well.  At least we have ‘peace in our time.’ Ha ha ha.”

Conservative Americans tend to believe the secret to peace is a strong military. Liberal Americans tend to prefer diplomacy, believing the secret to peace is to stop the aggressive “saber rattling” and sit down at the negotiation table.  Both are right.  And both are wrong. We must use common sense and work hard to avoid war.  But lasting peace comes from God.

“He makes wars cease throughout the earth. He shatters bows and cuts spears to pieces. He burns up chariots. ‘Stop your fighting and know that I AM GOD.  I will be exalted among the nations and I will be exalted on the earth’” Psalm 46:9-10.

Pray for the peace of Israel.  Pray for the Ukraine. Pray about the wars in Myanmar, Tunisia, Ethiopia, Sudan, and the warring drug cartels in Mexico. But as you pray, remember who ends wars and brings peace: “HE MAKES WARS TO CEASE THROUGHOUT THE EARTH.”

God is the source for “PEACE IN OUR TIME.”

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EXPRESSIONS FROM THE BIBLE. John 19:30.

You probably know what it means if I say, “I wash my hands of this matter.” It means I’m not involved or responsible. It comes from Pilate attempting to wash away his own responsibility for the kangaroo-court “conviction” of Jesus.

And you probably know the context in which Jesus made famous the phrase, “He who lives by the sword will die by the sword.”

An interesting expression or euphemism for death is “gave up the ghost.” This comes from John 19:30—after several hours on the cross, “Jesus bowed His head and gave up the ghost.” 

We don’t talk often about it, but Bible knowledge is a big part of an education.

The Bible is the most important and influential book in English. Learn it and you will be educated. 

Here are more common expressions from the Bible. Do you know the context? Quiz yourself:

  • The blind leading the blind. Matt.15:13-14.
  • In the twinkling of an eye. I Cor. 15:52.
  • Cast your pearls before swine. Matt. 7:6.
  • Forbidden fruit. Gen.3:3
  • Wolf in sheep’s clothing. Matt. 7:15.
  • Handwriting on the wall. Daniel 5.
  • At your wit’s end. Psalm 107:27.
  • Nothing new under the sun. Eccl. 1:9.
  • There is a time for everything. Eccl. 3:1-8.
  • Sign of the times. Matt. 16:3.
  • Scapegoat. Lev. 16:9-10.
  • Rise and shine. Isaiah 60:1.
  • Pride goes before destruction. Prov. 16:18.
  • How the mighty have fallen. 2 Sam. 1:19.
  • Skin and bones. Job 19:19-20.
  • Go the extra mile. Matt. 5:41.
  • Fly in the ointment. Eccl. 10:1.
  • Fall from grace. Gal. 5:4.
  • Eye for an eye. Matt. 5:38.
  • Eat, drink, and be merry. Eccl. 8:15.
  • Drop in the bucket. Isaiah 40:15.
  • Cast the first stone. John 8:7.
  • Skin of your teeth. Job 19:20.
  • Broken heart. Ps. 34:18.
  • God is my witness. Romans 1:9.
  • I am with you in spirit. Colossians 2:5.

God, help us love Your word and study it like never before!

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WHY ARE WE HERE? Isaiah 40-43.

What is the point of our short little lives?

“All humanity is grass… the grass withers, the flower fades, but the Word of our God remains forever.” Isaiah 40:6,8.

“The nations are a drop in a bucket, a speck of dust on the scales… all the nations [6,000,000,000 people!] are as nothing to Him, nothingness and emptiness…. Do you not know? Have you not heard? God is enthroned above the earth and its inhabitants are like grasshoppers in His sight… He reduces kings to nothing and makes judges lose their minds. He blows on them and they wither.” Is. 40:21-24.

But it is not so with believers like you….

“Do not fear for I have saved you. I will be with you when you pass through the waters, and the rivers will not drown you. You will not be scorched when you walk through fire, and the flame will not burn you. For I am your God and your Savior. You are precious in my sight and I love you. Do not fear, for I AM WITH YOU.” 43:1-5.

So what is God’s purpose? Sure, these verses say He will defeat our enemies and protect and save us. But why? So we can glorify Him. Not only by saying it but by our actions. God is honored and glorified when His people share His love, light, hope, truth, and yes, His holiness. When you live a holy life, you are giving God glory—and THAT is why you are here: to give God glory by living your life HIS WAY. That is your purpose, and the more you live out THAT purpose, the happier and more fulfilled you will be—because God created you with needs that only holy, Godly living can satisfy.

“Everyone called by My Name and created for My Glory.” Is. 43:7.

You see that? God Himself describes us as having been CREATED FOR HIS GLORY. Ask Him to show you how to give Him glory every day, in every decision, and with every word you speak. The people around you need to see God’s glory!

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Hard Truths Can Become Words of Comfort. Isaiah 40, Matthew 6:20.

Sunday afternoons will often find me enjoying my new riding mower. Last week I was mowing a maze into a pasture and wishing I had small children around to appreciate it. But it was just me and acres of partially cut grass. A cold front was coming in and every time I turned the mower to the west, the north wind sandblasted me with the dust of a million grains of shredded grass.

I found a source online that says an acre contains 156 million blades of grass. Think about this: which is more important? Me or a single blade of grass? Can you even compare the two? Yes. Believe it or not, God finds the two lives comparable.

It is a hard truth—but true, nonetheless—that no human life is really that big a deal. Human life and culture is all that we see, and we are deceived into thinking nothing matters more than SIGNIFICANCE. Young people want to be famous, rich, and powerful. You idolize great men of history like Washington and Churchill, or titans of industry like Rockefeller, or world changers like Edison and Einstein, or writers and thinkers like Shakespeare and C.S. Lewis.

But this is the truth: YOU’RE NOT THAT BIG A DEAL. 

And you know what else?

THOSE FAMOUS PEOPLE YOU ADMIRE? ALSO NOT THAT BIG A DEAL.

God offers words of comfort when He says a human life is like a single blade of grass—it is short-lived and hardly noticed.

“Comfort, comfort My people … All humanity is grass, and all its goodness is like the flower of the field … The grass withers, the flowers fade, but the word of our God remains forever” Isaiah 40:1; Isaiah 40:6-8.  (See also Ecclesiastes.)

He goes on to say “the nations are like a drop in a bucket and are considered as a speck of dust in the scales” and the people of earth are like grasshoppers in the field, Isaiah 40:15; 40:22.  How can that be?  How is it that EVERYTHING we have ever done on earth is small and meaningless? Because we have never seen the infinite God who made the world.  If He is in your story, then OF COURSE you are as small as a speck of dust. And you can take comfort in that: you are not responsible for the universe, world peace, saving the whales, or actually much of anything. You have one or two tiny responsibilities to your family and community.  And guess what? God is with you.  He matters.  And He can make your life matter.

“Do not fear for I am with you … I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, surely I will hold on to you with my righteous right hand” Isaiah 41:10. 

Do you feel lost in the crowd? Do you feel like your life does not matter? Welcome to normal.  Walk with God, holding His hand, and keep storing up treasures in heaven.  In heaven the things you have done on earth will matter forever.

“Store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroy and where thieves cannot break in and steal” Matthew 6:20.

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PRAY!  2 Kings 20:1-3; 1 Thessalonians 5:17.

Have you ever thought ‘Oh, well, it’s God’s will—God is going to do what God is going to do’? 

Are you tempted to think prayer won’t change anything, so why bother—as if God has already decided what He is going to do?

THAT’S FALSE!

What God has DECIDED is that PRAYER WORKS!  What He has decided is that He will be moved—PERSUADED—by our prayers.

You know what God’s will is?  GOD’S WILL IS THAT HE WILL CHANGE HIS MIND WHEN WE PRAY.

“In those days Hezekiah became terminally ill. The prophet Isaiah came and said, ‘This is what the LORD says, ‘Put your affairs in order, for you are about to die. You will not recover.’  “Then Hezekiah turned his face to the wall and prayed to the Lord. He said, ‘Please Lord, remember how I have walked before you faithfully and wholeheartedly, and have done what pleases you.’ And Hezekiah wept bitterly” 2 Kings 20:1-3.

Imagine!  God pronounces a sentence of death: “You are about to die.”  But Hezekiah prayed anyway—and it was not even an impressive prayer, was it?

“Isaiah had not yet gone out of the inner courtyard when the word of the Lord came to him: ‘Go back and tell Hezekiah, the leader of My people, ‘This is what the Lord God of your ancestor David says: ‘I have heard your prayer. I have seen your tears. Behold, I will heal you…. I will add 15 years to your life” vv.4-6.

So God pronounces the imminent death of King Hezekiah. Hezekiah prays a quick prayer and weeps bitterly. And what happened?

GOD CHANGED HIS MIND!  Imagine that! 

“Pray without ceasing—never give up!” 1 Thessalonians 5:17.

God, remind us that PRAYER WORKS—that Your will is to respond to our prayers!

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Does Prayer Really Work? Isaiah 38:1-5; Matthew 7:7-11.

Have you ever doubted prayer? Consider the story of Hezekiah—it is told in THREE books of the Bible: Isaiah, 2 Kings, 2 Chronicles.

“Hezekiah became terminally ill. The prophet Isaiah came to him and said, ‘Put your affairs in order, for you are about to die.’ Then Hezekiah turned his face to the wall and prayed to the Lord. He said, ‘Please, Lord, remember how I have walked before You faithfully and wholeheartedly, and have done what pleases You.’ And Hezekiah wept bitterly. Then the word of the Lord came to Isaiah: ‘Go and tell Hezekiah that this is what the Lord God says: I have heard your prayer; I have seen your tears. I am going to add 15 years to your life.” Isaiah 38:1-5.

I’m telling you! GOD ANSWERS PRAYER. I have seen it. Sometimes He says “No.” Or even “Wait.” But often God says, “YES.”

Jesus said, “Ask and you shall receive. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and the door will be opened.” Matthew 7:7.

What do you need or want that you have not asked for? ASK! What if Christmas were coming and your children could not think of anything they wanted? It would be disappointing because parents LOVE to give their children good gifts, right? God loves to do the same!

Jesus said, “If you then know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give what is good to those that ask Him?” Matthew 7:11. God LONGS to bless you! Why don’t you ask?

James 4:2 says, “You have not because you ASK not.” So why aren’t you asking? And if you can’t think of things to ask for, think harder! Make a list! What do you need from God? Write it down and ask Him to bless you. He is coming to you with a tractor-trailer full of blessings—and you show up with a coin purse to carry them home in? God LOVES to bless you, but you have to step up your game and START ASKING. Ask God for big things!

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